The 16 Best Sex Gifts for Long Distance Relationships

1. OhMiBod Esca 2 Couples Vibrator

The OhMiBod Esca 2 Couples Vibrator was declared the “most visually stunning interactive vibrator” by the Observer, so that has to mean something. The vibrator is designed to be worn out and about, so all your girlfriend has to do is attach it when she goes about her day. You then download the OhMiBod remote app to your smartphone, giving you complete control over the vibrator. So when your girlfriend is in a meeting or doing the shopping, you can activate the vibrator from anywhere in the world.

If your girlfriend would prefer to use the vibrator from the comfort of home, that also works. As long as you have an internet connection you can control the vibrator and get her off. It can also be used manually by her and has four different settings to choose from. For those who like a visual element, there are LED lights that sync to the vibrations, so if you are watching her get off over FaceTime, you can see the vibrations you are sending her. Sexy times!

2. Kiiroo Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set

Here is something you can both enjoy from one of Amsterdam’s fastest-growing sex toy manufacturers. Kiiroo has won many awards for its products and is leading the way when it comes to new technologies being incorporated into sex toys. That is certainly true when it comes to this couple set comprising of two toys, one for you and one for her. 

The Onyx+ is a fleshlight designed for discreet genital stimulation. It can generate up to 140 strokes per minute, meaning you are likely to reach climax in no time. For your lady is the Pearl2, a G-spot vibrator that will have her eyes rolling in the back of her head. The best thing about these two toys is you can both control each other’s toy. Set up the FeelConnect app and you can get each other off from anywhere in the world. 

3. Lovense Lush 2 Bullet Vibrator

Similar to our first selection, this compact vibrator can be controlled by you from anywhere in the world. It has seven different mind-blowing vibration speeds and has been designed to hit the G-spot or P-spot. Yep, that’s right, this vibrator can also be used anally.  So if you or your partner enjoy butt stuff you can get one for yourself and one for your lady, and both enjoy getting each other off. 

4. OhMiBod blueMotion NEX

Here is another product from OhMiBod that is sure to keep your partner happy. This is an app-controlled wearable panty vibrator that fits snuggly into your lady’s private parts. This second-generation version of the blueMotion NEX vibrator is smaller than the previous model and even comes with a pair of lacy blue panties made to make sure the vibrator stays put. While this is similar to OhMiBod’s Esca 2 Couples vibrator, the big difference is the blueMotion NEX allows you to sync music to the vibrator, so the beat of the song reflects the vibrations your partner feels. This way she can be listening to Marvin Gaye’s Let’s Get In On while she is actually getting it on. 

5. Our Moments Sexting: 100 Messages To Text You Partner

Spice up your everyday text conversations with these 100 messages. The cards are super small and able to be photographed and sent to your girlfriend with ease. There are all sorts of questions and ideas that can be explored with these messages, and while you won’t be able to perform any of the acts in the real world together, they will give you some ideas for what you can do next time you meet up in the flesh. 

6. Lovense Max2 and Nora

This sex toy set is very much like the Kiiroo Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set, but with a few key differences. Instead of a smaller shaped vibrator, your lady gets a rabbit, otherwise known as Nora. This means she can stimulate her clitoris while also penetrating herself. Double the satisfaction. The Max2 is the company’s most recent fleshlight contraption that has several different speeds.

What really makes this set unique is the fact that these interactive sex toys connect via Bluetooth to an app that gives you control over the devices. Not only that, but the toys communicate with each other using haptic feedback. So the faster the Max2 is stroking your member, the quicker the Nora vibrates and rotates. It is as close to actually having sex as you can get, making this a great sex gift for those in long distance relationships. 

7. Printable Sex Coupons

When you finally get around to seeing your lover in the flesh, there is no doubt the sparks will fly in the bedroom. But why not make the most of your time together by trying some new things? This collection of sex coupons is sure to inspire some sexual adventures between you and your partner. You download the coupons and then print them off and give them to your partner to redeem. They provide a bit of naughty fun in the bedroom and are great for spicing things up.

8. Satisfyer Double Joy

Here’s another little sex toy your girlfriend is sure to enjoy. While it can be used together, it is a super cute toy for her to get pleasure from. The u-shape means the Double Joy stimulates both her clitoris and G-spot, so you know she will be feeling good while playing with this toy. While you are talking dirty over FaceTime, she can be stimulating herself and making the convo hot and heavy while you get yourself off. It is a great solo toy for when she wants to sort herself out but can also be used during sex the next time you meet up for some good times in the flesh. 

9. Lovense Hush Remote Control Butt Plug

This one might not be to everyone’s liking, but if anal play is your thing, you can’t go past this little number. The Hush Remote Control Butt Plug from Lovense is the world’s first teledildonic butt plug, meaning it can be controlled from anywhere in the world. This is quite helpful when in a long distance relationship. It is aimed at beginners and isn’t too large so it won’t cause too many problems. It has an ergonomic base so it will stay in place while being worn. You or your partner use your phone to control the vibration levels and can even synch the butt plug to music. As you would expect, it is waterproof and can be used with most lubricants. 

10. Send Nudes Relatonship Gift Box

This one is a little different from the others on this list as it actually isn’t a sex toy. The purpose of this gift is to send your partner a collection of goodies that will put her in a great mood, and in return, she will send you a few classy nudes. Now of course there is no certainty that she will do this, but fingers crossed she wants to repay the favor.

So what does your partner get with her Send Nudes Relationship Gift Box? The box comes with an assortment of spa treatments that will leave her glowing. There is a 100% all-natural soy candle with the scent of your choice, a boho mantra matchbox, and an organic vanilla mint lip balm packaged in a paper cardboard lip balm container. Also included is whipped body butter, handmade artisan soap, and a floral bath bomb scented with essential oils. It is the ultimate relaxation gift set your girlfriend is sure to be grateful for. 

11. Clone-A-Willy Vibrator Molding Kit

If your partner is really craving your cock, sort them out with the Clone-A-Willy Vibrator Molding Kit. As the name suggests, this sex toy is a model of your actual junk. Available in a wide range of colors, this set comes with easy-to-follow instructions that will result in you creating an exact model of your penis. The silicon replica also includes a single-speed vibrating unit for extra stimulation. Gift this to your girlfriend and she will never forget what you feel like.

If you are feeling a little left out, don’t be, as there is also a Clone-A-Pussy Plus+ Female Molding Kit. This handy kit means you can have an exact copy of your partner’s vagina to fuck to your heart’s content. Everyone wins with these toys. 

12. Lovehoney Oh! Kinky Confessions Truth or Dare Card Game

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Get yourself ready for your next meet up by playing this revealing card game. Despite the truth or dare title, this card set contains 52 ‘would you rather’ questions that you can ask your partner. Shuffle the deck, pick a card and see who says what. If one of you doesn’t want to answer, there are several dare suggestions on the cards they can carry out instead.

Some of the questions include ‘Would you rather have sex in the bath or shower?’ ‘Would you rather eat chocolate sauce or ice cream off your partner’s body?’ and ‘Would you rather spank or be spanked?’ Obviously, you can’t act out any of these fantasies but they will give you some ideas for the next time you both share a bed together. 

13. Doc Johnson Good Head Blow Job Stroker

This is one for you to enjoy while your lady talks dirty over the phone. The Doc Johnson Good Head Blow Job Stroker is an inventive sex toy that is as close to getting a blow job as you are ever going to get in a long distance relationship. Realistic ULTRASKYN offers a soft, life-like sensation that will feel like your partner’s mouth is wrapped around your member. Just add some lube and start sliding your penis in and out of the sex toy and you’ll be in climax heaven in no time. 

14. We-Vibe Melt App Controlled Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

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It is only fair your partner can also experience the joys of oral sex when you aren’t around. The We-Vibe Melt App Controlled Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator is a nifty toy that stimulates a sucking sensation on her clitoris. There are 12 different levels of intensity, depending on how sensitive you are, which can be controlled by your or your partner. She can use this why you are using the Doc Johnson Good Head Blow Job Stroker so you can both imagine having a 69 together despite being thousands of od miles apart. 

15. Sexy Lingere

Another item that isn’t a sex toy but is sure to induce sexy times is lingerie. Women love lingerie, especially when it comes from their partner. Just remember when buying lingerie it isn’t just for you to gawk at. It has to be something you think she would be comfortable wearing, so be sure to ask a few subtle questions about her preferences before you splash the cash.

There are so many different brands and types of lingerie you can buy, but we are fans of this bodysuit from Adore Me. The Anouchka Unlined comes in a variety of different colors (we love red), is sexy, and revealing without being slutty. While you might not get to enjoy it in person, we are sure your partner won’t mind putting on a racy show for you over FaceTime or sending you a few naughty pics wearing this sultry number. 

16. We-Vibe Pivot App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring

Let her give you some pleasure with his vibrating cock ring from We-Vibe. The Pivot is a wonderful toy that slips over your penis with 10 vibration modes to tickle your senses. It can be controlled by the We-Connect app so your partner can be in charge of your orgasm. You can also customize your settings so the Pivot remembers what speeds you enjoyed last time to get you off even quicker.